Homeless Aid Relies on People and Numbers

The HUD’s Point-in-Time Homeless Persons Count

When we serve the needy members of our community, we like to imagine that our efforts are making a difference.  Knowing that you donated the money to get a pack of diapers that will help an unemployed mom care for her baby is a good feeling.


But also involved in giving aid to people on a personal level is a massive national infrastructure that has to be quantified.  As unsavory a picture as it may seem to imagine city workers walking the streets, pointing to people and saying “23…24…25…” and ticking off marks on a clipboard, it is indeed a thing that happens.

The US Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) “mandates that jurisdictions perform a homeless count every two years,” according to an article by Matt Stevens in last Sunday’s Los Angeles Times.  Stevens notes that LA County’s effort is the largest of any agency in the nation, relying on 4,000 city and county workers to fan out through the area and perform manual counts as imagined above.

On a smaller scale, the Southern California city of Glendale conducts its own homeless count every year.  Help a Mother Out has worked with a Glendale homeless shelter and several local businesses and agencies to get diapers into the hands of needy families there since 2009, and we have witnessed the tremendous amount of caring and effort that those organizations and people put into helping their needy community members.  While Glendale is an example of a municipality that keeps the face of homelessness relevant and personal to the people who help out, the city’s annual homeless count is a useful tool that helps agencies know where to allocate resources.  From the 2012 report:


The results of the 2012 Homeless Count provide information that serves as the basis for
three important priorities:
• understanding the nature and extent of the current trends in homelessness in
the City of Glendale;
• responding to the unmet needs and gaps in services for homeless individuals
and families in the City of Glendale; and
• developing local community and county wide strategies to meet the goal of
ending homelessness in 10 years and ending veterans homelessness in 5
years.

In addition, the reports allow communities to determine how much aid they need.  In the Times, Stevens quotes Michael Arnold, Executive Director of the Los Angeles Homeless Services Authority, who noted “If you don’t know the size of the problem, it’s very difficult to solve it…For many years, communities received homeless dollars without any assessment on how many people were on the street.”

In the case of families with children in diapers, it’s even harder to count the homeless among them.  Many adults who have babies are reluctant to come forward and be labeled as homeless because they are afraid of being separated from their children.  These are the among the families who do not seek aid for fear of being discovered.

Diaper Stories: School Kicks Off Diaper Drive With a Jingle

Candeo School in Phoenix, Arizona recently kicked off a school-wide diaper drive.  They support their local agency, Baby Diaper Drive, which holds an annual effort with the goal of collect 200,000 diapers and money to fund an emergency diaper stash for Homeward Bound, which supports underemployed and homeless parents and children. Local schools compete to see which one can collect the most diapers, and the one that wins gets a prize!

With a little bit of elbow grease and a school community full of eager kids and parents, this diaper drive will help BDD reach their goal in no time! The best part of their kickoff event, below, is at 2:10, when the whole school sings their little diaper drive jingle.

SF Law Firm Gives Back

We have some spectacular angels at the San Francisco offices of Quinn Emanuel Urquhart & Sullivan, LLP. Over the month of December, the firm hosted a charity drive cocktail party and collected 2,510 diapers, 2,958 wipes and raised $850. All this, in addition to the toy drive they hosted for the San Francisco Fire Fighters!

This is EXACTLY the kind of community support that is needed for us to continue this crucial work. Thank you to everyone who contributed, and a very special shout out to new mom Alice S. for spearheading this amazing effort!

Two words: Endless gratitude. Thank you.

If you’ve not yet had a chance to make a year-end gift, it’s not too late to make a tax-deductible contribution for 2012! AND… An anonymous donor will match your year-end gift, up to $5,000. Thank you for changing lives of mothers and babies in 2013! CLICK HERE TO MAKE YOUR GIFT.

Dear Friends of HAMO,

You are what making a difference looks like. THANK YOU to all of our donors and volunteers who have contributed so generously to Help a Mother Out this year. Pictured below are family advocates Kimberley and Candy. They are among the many front line human services staff who spread the diaper love to moms and their babies at home visitations, parenting workshops and resource centers. It’s primarily because of YOUR help that we’ve been able to continue helping families in need this year. You are utterly amazing and we are totally grateful for all you do.

It’s true that diapers address a basic (frequently unmet) human need. But did you know that they also serve as an effective and innovative relationship bridge for front line staff and low income families?

Best wishes to you and your family for a joyous holiday season and a peaceful new year ahead.

Gratefully,

Lisa Truong, Co-founder, Executive Director

Kim Tracy Prince, Los Angeles Director

Christine Coleman, Danica Remy, Catherine Hazelton, Whitney Moss, Board of Directors

Thank You Connected Women @ Cisco

Earlier this month Connected Women at Cisco Systems hosted their first annual holiday networking event. I had the opportunity to attend the event and speak on behalf of our families we serve through Help a Mother Out. It was a great time had by all and we were so grateful to be invited! Connected Women ended up collected over 2549 diapers for our families.

Thank you, Connected Women! We appreciate your support of our mission!

Reyna

“Not having diapers for my child has felt like a terrible, desperate and hopeless time. It feels bad – very frustrated. Money is hard to come by and difficult to save. I am so grateful. It has helped us economically.
If Help a Mother Out did not exist, it would be very difficult to provide for my child’s basic needs and my own basic needs as well.”
— Reyna, mom to 8 month old baby

Ashaki

Q. What is it like for you not to have enough diapers?

“It is the worst feeling ever. Kid crying because they are wet and I feel bad as a parent because I should be able to provide them. The diapers, they really help me because sometimes I can’t afford them or don’t have the money at all. I appreciate and am very thankful for the donors.”

~ Ashaki, mom of two

Sara’s Merry Holiday Diaper Drive

A big round of thanks goes to long time volunteer and supporter, Sara Steffen, who recently hosted her annual holiday diaper drive. This year Sara and her friends and family raised over 5,000 diapers(4697 diapers + $50 diaper dollars to be exact) for our families.

In one night!

The following day, Mike from Earth Baby (and friend) made a special Saturday pick up to whisk the diapers back to our donated storage at Earth Baby’s warehouse.


We’re so incredibly grateful to have this support! Thanks to Sara and all of her friends for making the end of 2012 extra special for the families we serve. We really think you are the bee’s knees!

Karen

Recently, we received a note from Karen, just one of the moms who have been helped by you:

“My daughter and I have received diapers from Help a Mother Out and I am very thankful. A lot of people don’t understand how bad I feel when I don’t have enough money to buy a bag of diapers. There is a lot of shame that comes with the guilty feeling of not having $10 to buy the cheapest diapers. My family and I have been going through some really bad times. Even when I do buy diapers they are not for sensitive skin and I deal with my daughter’s rashes and end up having to take her to the doctor. Her rashes are so intense that she does not let me wipe her. I want to be able to provide for my daughter. I am grateful that you provide diapers for babies with sensitive skin.” ~ Karen, mom to 8 month old baby girl

It’s important you know just how much your impact has been for moms like Karen this past year. Thank you for your investment in our families.

Earth Baby Customers: You Can Help Mothers this Holiday Season

This is a guest post from Cortney at EarthBaby. We are incredibly grateful to EarthBaby for sponsoring our donation pick ups and warehouse storage in the Bay Area. This partnership is invaluable as it saves us time, money, and resources – ultimately getting MORE diapers into the hands of moms who really need them. If you are a current, former, or future Earth Baby customer, please help a mother out! And don’t forget to share the message with all your Earth Baby friends!

To kick off the season of giving, EarthBaby is excited to announce our Help a Mother Out campaign.

EarthBaby is a proud supporter of Help a Mother Out by collecting diapers from donation binslocated throughout the Bay Area. These diapers are then transported to EarthBaby’s Santa Clara warehouse, sorted by a team of amazing Help A Mother Out volunteers and stored until they’re ready for distribution to families in need.

As a way to show our support for such an awesome organization and make a meaningful difference for local families in need this season, EarthBaby will donate one pack of new Nature Babycare diapers to Help a Mother Out every time an EarthBaby customer posts a picture of their own EarthBaby in Nature Babycare diapers! So please, show off your little munchkin in their kick-butt compostable diapers by posting it to our Facebook wall. With just a minute of your time, you will be giving parents in need a chance to put a clean diaper on their own child!

So let’s recap – with some pictures, for all those visual learners out there 

1. Post a picture of your EarthBaby on EarthBaby’s Facebook Wall any time between November 22nd and December 31st.

 

2. EarthBaby will donate 1 pack of diapers per photo to Help A Mother Out

 

3. Help A Mother Out will get clean diapers into the hands of families in need “because every baby deserves a clean diaper.”

The fine print: This campaign will run from November 22, 2012 – December 31, 2012 inclusive. Participants’ names must be registered in EarthBaby’s customer database (ie. past, present or future EarthBaby customers) in order to qualify.  Offer limited to two packs of donated diapers per participant. No cash value. No warranties of any kind, expressed or implied. EarthBaby reserves the right to curate the content of its Facebook Wall, this includes the right to remove any and all content that is deemed by to be inappropriate by the account administrator.
If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask! You can email me at cortney@earth-baby.com

Can’t wait to see all the EarthBaby cuties in their diapers!

Photos from Earth Baby.

Help Send Diapers To Hurricane Sandy Victims

Lots of people have been asking us how they can help families with babies and toddlers in the North East who may be running out of clean diapers after Hurricane Sandy.  Now we have something we can recommend.

Diapers.com has partnered with nonprofits on the ground in the area like The American Red Cross and the Jersey Humane Society to send supplies to the hardest hit families.  You can help by sending financial donations through a specific section of their site, diapers.com/sandy.  Select a dollar amount, and that money will be used to buy essentials like diapers, baby food, formula, and clothing for families in storm-ravaged areas.  There is no shipping fee.

Remember, you might not be able to do everything.  But you can do something.  And every little bit helps.

San Diego: Bayside Community Center

The other day our friends Alicia and Xavier volunteered and dropped off a truckload of diapers (3276 diapers, 15 cases) at Bayside Community Center. We were able to get these to Bayside’s families because ACOG hosted a their virtual diaper drive at their conference in San Diego, in addition to Alicia and Xavier’s local efforts.

We will be sending another special delivery to Bayside in the near future. Thanks San Diego andACOG! 

We are always in need of groups to partner with in order to further our mission. Please contact us info (at) helpamotherout (dotorg) if you are interested to helping.

Do Good During the Holidays: Host a Drive

Hey folks, so the holidays are just around the corner and like every other non profit enterprise, it’s a crucial season for us. If you have been thinking about doing some good this year, now is the time for you to take action and help a mother out!

Why do we need help?

We are a small, bootstrapping grassroots organization that makes the use of every resource we are given. Since starting the organization we have always said that our success depends on the strength of caring people and their desire to build a healthy community. We choose to partner with the best organizations to get our diapers to families in need. Because of our close working relationships with our partners we know that our diapers serve the community as a hand up. Whether it is a newly homeless mom, a child in the foster care system, or parents in between paychecks, we want to be there for them and we know many in the community want to be as well.

This year has been our most demanding year.  Here are just two notes we have received from moms who have been helped by caring people like you:

“Your diapers help a lot. Because if I get the extra diapers I’ll be able to get milk and other things my baby needs. I don’t know what I’d do without this extra help.” ~ Tyronay, mom of 3 week old baby boy

“Yes, right now I’m trying to figure out how I’m gonna pay for fingerprints for a job, and my diapers. If I pay for fingerprints I might not be able to buy diapers when needed. And if I don’t I won’t get the job.” ~ Dorian, homeless mom of 1

If you are interested in hosting a drive please drop us a line and we can give you more ideas on making your drive a success. info (at) helpamotherout (dotorg).

Hosting a diaper drive is super easy.

Below are some tips to help you get started. In addition to the following ideas, check out our diaper drive toolkit that is full of inspiration.

1) Set a date for your drive. If you are hosting a holiday gathering, you already have your date. If you are hosting a drive at your workplace, school, or place of worship, we recommend holding your drive for at least 2 weeks to one month.

2) Promote your drive. If your drive is for a holiday party, include the drive information in your invitation. As well, send a reminder a day or two before your event. If you are hosting a drive at your workplace, school, or place of worship get the word out in any way possible: create a flier (we have one you can use), posters, cold calling, email blasts, social networks. Be sure to include the details like: dates, locations, and purpose of the drive.

3) Organize your diapers. If you’d like to report back a diaper count tally, count the diapers by the quantity in each pack/case.

4) Remember to take a photo of your efforts to share with everyone who contributes to your efforts! We also LOVE sharing photos with our community and in our newsletter – PLEASE send a photo to us: info (at) helpamotherout (dotorg)

5) Send them away! Bay Area and Los Angeles folks, we have a number of drop bin locations where you can drop off the diapers. If you think your diaper haul needs more coordination (e.g., you collect over 3K diapers. BAM!) then please contact us for help coordinating a drop off.

6)  Say thank you! Use the photo that you took and report back to everyone who contributed to your drive. If you held a holiday gathering, simply email your guests and thank them for coming and be sure include your photo and drive results. If your drive was with a community group, share it in your next newsletter or post it on the Facebook page.

Have you ever hosted a donation drive? What made it successful?

KinderCycle in the 510

 

About a year and a half ago we were contacted by a new mom, Jennifer, who recently started up a parent-driven venture called KinderCycle. What is Kindercycle? Jennifer and her crew host children’s clothing swaps, mostly in the East Bay. During their swaps, they collect diapers on behalf of our families.

We’re so grateful for this partnership and simply LOVE what KinderCycle is all about: a resource for moms sharing the abundance, building community, and helping others in a fun way. If you are local, please check them out and send your new(ish) moms to one of their swaps. And remember to donate diapers!

It takes a village, ya’ll! We’re always looking for community groups like KinderCycle to partner with. If your group is interested in learning more about diaper need, hosting a diaper drive or giving back to the community in other ways, please connect with us. 

Next Warehouse Day: October 26th

We’ve been quiet here on the old blog, chiefly because we’ve been busy with behind the scenes stuff and have gotten a bit lazy just posting community updates to Facebook.

Anyways, going forward keep a look out for more stuff here.

This is a photo taken by Cortney at Earth Baby at our last warehouse distribution day. We are always looking for volunteers (the EB warehouse is in Santa Clara) to help us in the warehouse, as well as groups who want to help with diaper drives.  If you are interested, let us know!

Thank you for helping us reach ONE MILLION!

This week we reached our 1 million diapers milestone! Whether you have given much needed funds or diapers, hosted a fundraiser or drive, or advocated on our behalf, we sincerely appreciate your help in strengthening the families we serve. Communities are only as strong as the caring people who are in it and we’re glad you have been there for our families at a crucial time in their child’s life.

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Please accept these virtual cupcakes as a small token of our gratitude to you. Thank you for being part of our community!!

KarmaWell: Help Us Generate Micro-Donations

 

You can now help us help more families when you shop online throughout the year. On the recommendation of Chesna (friend to board member Catherine) we have chosen to partner with KarmaWell.

Say what?

Supporters can designate micro-donations to our organization while shopping at online retailers. Check it out and download the browser app to have your online purchases make a difference (and at no cost to you).

Learn more by visiting our KarmaWell page. Every bit counts!

Will you download the app? Please be sure to let us know so we can thank you!

National Diaper Need Awareness Week

 

This month we are partnering with the National Diaper Bank Network to spread the word about diaper need in America. One in three American families struggle to provide diapers for their children.

There is an estimated need for over 15 billion diapers annually in the United States. Help the cause by participating in the first-ever Diaper Need Awareness Week, which runs September 10 – 17th.

Help a Mother Out fills a crucial void in the safety net. Please help us by donating diapers before September 30th.

Give Cheeks a Chance Diaper Drive

We are just 15K diapers away from reaching the ONE MILLION diapers milestone. We would love your help to reach this goal by the end of September.

Here is how you can help:

1) Donate at our drop bins in the Bay Area or Los Angeles Metro Area

2) Send us diapers in the mail through our Amazon wishlist

3) Take the pledge and spread the word by sharing this post

Sandy

“If it wasn’t for diaper assistance, I would not be able to save money for my first month’s rent. I have a little girl, two months old. I don’t get as stressed out as much anymore. God bless you for thinking of us.”
— Sandy, homeless mom